Even the Sun ..after a day of shiNing .. turns it's face away for a bit, to return it's gaze at another point in time. Why then as Lovers .. must we constantly stare into each other's eyes? We fear not these spaces between us .. as we fear not each sunset. For we let each other go in the knowing ... the togetherness WILL come again ☆
There are moon energies in the feminine as there are sun energies in the masculine ... and both will pull at each other, as night follows day and day follows night. It is this 'attraction' that is the seed of sorrow and fear in being Lovers. For as much as that intimate embrace of sexual union is sweet, when both energies intertwine and build upon each other in a complete circle ... there is the moment of withdrawal. When each returns to the physical realms of individuality ... and the masculine can no longer fit into the feminine. His softer side emerges .. he has extracted into himself the feminine essence of flow. And this is when the feminine becomes as strong as the sun .. her desire and determination to exclusively grow the relationship connection comes to the fore. She is now carrying the masculine essence of focus.
But rarely does a man or a woman realise this exchange has occurred. And so a man will find a woman suddenly clingy and overwhelming in her desire to have his constant presence .. and a woman will feel a man is distant and moody as the waning of the moon ... for both have completed each other's circle of energies in the sweet union.
And this is why, after a sweet season of togetherness .. it is best to create and allow ~ 'loving spaces'.
Goddess ... take the masculine 'focus' energy that has been poured into you .. and apply it to parts of your life that need you to stand up and fight for what your heart wants to pursue, for what you want to see manifest in the material sense.
God .... take the feminine 'versatility' energy that your Goddess has wrapped you with .. and apply it to parts of your life that will benefit from a bit more flow, and a little less vehemence and willpower.
To do this well, both must give each other the Lover's Embrace of going separate ways ... the sacred, safe loving space.
And as sunrise follows sunset, when it is time ..when the energies are spent, both WILL come again ... together.
And so the dance will continue ... the powerful blessing of allowing Loving Spaces of Separation .. in Between Embraces ☆
Separation .. can be in the mind or in the physical, can be symbolic or actual .. can last an hour or last a week ... it is the 'essence' of both going separate ways .. and not merely the form ~
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